The present is the moral behavior extension is the public relations link gives a present is the universal existence social phenomenon, it exists in human society's each time, present each area. An ideal present to the benefactor and the receiver, can express some kind of special desire, the present transmits some kind of special information. Was a manifesto, the present it already announced you and receiver's relations: Ordinary friend, friendly relative, gratitude subordinate's boss perhaps a warm-hearted adorer. The present it had also reflected you hoped you set up what kind of image in others mind, can appreciate others' person, an appeal lofty person, the present or is knew how to use the human who the smile terminates the relations. More importantly, the present docking acceptor is also a manifesto: The present he obtained your approval loyally, he endures the spirit to be worth praising, the present his leader can be very important to this department, the present his health makes one worry, he causes to do business into a happy event. In brief, he is worth thanking.

    Everybody bestow and accept the present, no matter gives a present whether voluntarily, present each can pass through rear area the choice to be able to deliver. Is your moral behavior extending, opposite party can weigh your interest, the present even includes your wisdom and the talent. Delivers anything, how to deliver can make importantly, the present lasting impression to the human. How does opposite party accept also similarly so.

      No matter we acknowledged that or not, the present is both meaningful to both sides, the present it is playing the strong character in ours life. The present we earnestly seek to it are also to approve, the affection, the understanding and love and so on earnestly seeking. We bestow with the behavior which accepts involve to life many aspects. The present through us may drive that other people, educate other people, to be possible to obtain the control, to obtain the compensation, may demonstrate that the knowledge and the training, the present expression are friendly and compassion, may also expand individual influence. In brief, the present has become our each person manner to get along with people, to integrate the public relations form which the society does not lack. The present from defeated presents tribute gives a present the achievement one kind of special social phenomenon to ritual Shang Wang, the present it has the very glorious history. The people present mutually, is in the human society life the essential human relations content.

  The present presents, is produces together with other a series of etiquette activity and develops. The present we knew that stemmed from ancient times the time sacrificial offering activity. When sacrificial offering, the people besides use the standard the movement, the reverent manner to the god to indicate that respects and awes, the present also most has the value, most to be able to manifest to the god respect goods (i.e. sacrifice) offers to the God. Perhaps since then, in the present meaning, the present started to have the material ingredient and to display. Namely the ritual may appear by the gift form. Origin, but also some people said that at first originated in the ancient times war, because the tribe annexed “presents tribute”, the present which produced was also is sent to regularly by the vanquisher to the vanquisher food, the slave and so on, expressed that and begged the vanquisher to vanquisher's obedience to shelter. In the history book once had because of delivers not prompt or not thorough initiates war's record. Present like Spring and Autumn Period time, because Chu country has not delivered vehicle bushes on time to the week emperor, but initiated the area south of Yellow River various countries alliance to cut down Chu's war on a large scale. Present also some people believed that initial is one kind of commercial nature give-and-take, primitive “pays a man back in his own coin”, materially is the product exchange which carries on by the present present and the reward way. The beautiful feminism arms we may see from the multiform origin, generally is by the thing formal expression, the present its scope is very big. The present in the ancient times, might be the money class money and so on, "Present", "Shihchi" and so on the history books and the ancient book, the common emperor granted the feudal lord or the person who has rendered meritorious service by “the present”, “the large sum of money” the record; May also be the tool, the weapon and so on special-purpose instrument, the present “the treasured sword presents as a gift the hero” is our country's eternity charming story; May also be the horse and so on has the special function or the special significance animal,Present" under the Guan Yu place “the present”, Liu Bei rides while “Lu”, the present not separately is indebted Cao Cao, Liu Biao to present as a gift? As for the clothing, the jewelry, food and Tian Zhai and so on were ordinary. The most special present was in the ancient times, the present person is also taken specially presents as a gift sends to, present the world all so. China ancient times did first beautiful woman Xi Shi Fan Li treat as offers it with Wu Wangfu the difference, why not the sable imperial sacrifices is the king permits in the linked strategies to give to Dong Zhuo? Slave society time's any country, like ancient Greece Sparta, between the present slave-owner bestows the slave is the extremely normal matter mutually. The human society undergoes several thousand year development, after the present enters the modern society, along with the people knows the unceasing enhancement, “gave a present” this unique social phenomenon to obtain the further development, abandoned some to violate the behavior morals and individual will gradually the ill health concept, became one kind of special social art shape, had its unique connotation, had its many performance method. Since the money ≠ present stems from the sincerity is the best present, therefore the value cannot not be able to weigh by its value by its price, the key looked that for significance which entrusts with. “the great distance delivers the goose feathers, the ritual light cordiality is heavy”, this was our country ancient times the working people to its most precise understanding。

 Although the modern opera "Present" in the present the Yang wasted effort the red string which ties for happy, the price is nothing to speak, but it contains the sentiment touching tear under ardently, the value is actually extraordinary. The diamond is no doubt magnificent and expensive, the red string is not necessarily inferior. The present therefore, the good present does not lie in the luxury and expensive, the key was it has been full of benefactor's affection, they most could move opposite party mind. In the local park, the present roadside or the school plant one to hang have your friend name sign's tree; By somebody's name for the local library, the school bestows a precious book; The present writes a poem for somebody, to make a song perhaps to arrange a story; Asks in the family the elder to chat their childhood, they the family amusing thing which or other almost put behind to own parents' recollection, records down them gives family other members; The present before new year, when delivers the calendar to opposite party, in the calendar superscript has all family member and friend's birthday, the wedding anniversary commemoration day and other special holiday ...... <dnt> </dnt> present all these, who can deny that this is not the most valueable present? 

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